Flowers and marriage.

My good friend Caryn and I sometimes design flowers for special events. We work mainly through referrals so are often amazed when anyone contacts us cold. But thanks to several lovely comments on boards like Indiebride, we get a regular stream of interest--it's quite honestly as much as we can handle considering our other commitments.
Today we did the flowers for a wonderful bride named Holly. We love fall weddings and the palettes that they inspire. I'm also more than a bit biased because nine years ago, on a beautiful Columbus Day weekend, I married my wonderful husband. I didn't do flowers then so it pains me a bit to look back at our photographs and see what our florist designed. I went classic with all red roses and touches of pepperberry. I do still love that look--and the bouquets photographed beautifully--but now that I know so much more about flowers, I would have added more variety and texture. And although I'm not usually the biggest fan of yellow (I think it has something to do with my mother's obsession with yellow. And the ruffled, floral, yellow canopy I stared at for untold hours as a child), today's palette is a favorite. It reminds me of a sunset.
I'm headed, as a guest this time, to another wedding tomorrow. I know some may not want to spend their anniversary weekend at another's wedding. But I actually like it. I love thinking back on our special day and there's no better place to do that then when I'm sitting in a pew, squeezing my sweetie's hand, and watching others take their vows.
As my mind wanders over the details of our wedding, it's funny what comes back so vividly. I've always been crafty and so I think most everyone was braced for what I'd pull out for our wedding--programs, name cards, embellishing my own shoes with silk roses, etc., you know how it is. But I think that even my parents--who have witnessed my craft frenzy first hand longer than anyone else--thought I'd overshot it when they found me in my kitchen one morning resurfacing my table with a tile mosaic. I hated the finish on that table. And it didn't concern me at all that it was three days before our wedding and just two days before our open house bbq that all guests were invited to. (BTW, I got it done. It was gorgeous and made me smile instead of wince and it's now the table I sew on in my craft space).
Happy Columbus Day!